Dream Nannies

When searching for the right childcare solution, many families automatically think that they need to get their child’s name on their local daycare centre’s waiting list. Hiring a nanny might seem out of the question due to the costs involved, but there are many advantages that you might not have considered – which may just make it a more appealing option.

In this blog post, we’ll explore the pros and cons of hiring a nanny and how it compares to daycare.

Nanny vs. daycare: Weighing the pros and cons for your child’s care

Let’s look at the 13 most important factors that you’ll need to consider when deciding between hiring a nanny and placing your child in a daycare setting, and how each solution compares.

 Individualised care

One of the primary advantages of hiring a nanny is the personalised attention your child receives. With one-on-one care, the nanny can tailor activities and routines to meet your child’s specific needs, preferences, and developmental stages.


In a daycare setting, individualised attention may be limited. While there are benefits to socialisation, some children may require more personalised care, whether it’s because their temperament is better suited to it, or they have additional needs, such as medical conditions or developmental challenges.

Customised learning and development

Nannies have the flexibility to create personalised learning activities based on your child’s individual needs and interests. This tailored approach can enhance your child’s development and foster a love for learning.

Many daycare centres offer structured learning programs designed to enhance a child’s cognitive, emotional, and physical development. These programs may include age-appropriate activities, educational games, and group exercises. This could limit the customisation of care based on individual needs or preferences.

Schedule flexibility

Families who hire a nanny have the freedom to negotiate and establish a childcare schedule that suits their specific requirements. Whether you need full-time, part-time, or occasional childcare, a nanny can provide the flexibility you need.

Daycare centres typically operate on fixed schedules, and parents may need to adhere to specific drop-off and pick-up times. This lack of flexibility can be challenging for families with irregular work hours.

Household support

Beyond childcare duties, nannies often assist with light household tasks related to the child. This can include meal preparation, laundry, and tidying up the child’s play areas, providing valuable support to busy parents. You can’t put a price on coming home after a long day to a tidy house, a clean basket of folded laundry, and a fed and happy child.

Of course, this isn’t possible with a daycare setting, so you may need additional household support, incurring more costs. 

Continuity of care

If you find the right nanny for your family, they can offer consistent and long-term care, promoting a strong bond between the caregiver and the child.

Daycare centres have potential staff turnover, but they do strive to maintain consistent caregivers for each age group. This consistency provides children with familiar faces and routines.

Socialisation opportunities

Children in a nanny arrangement may have fewer opportunities for social interaction with peers compared to those in group childcare settings, but a nanny can arrange daily social experiences within the community, such as playgroups, classes, playdate, visits to playgrounds, the museum etc.

Childcare facilities provide an environment where children can interact with peers, fostering social skills, cooperation, and early friendships. Group settings offer diverse socialisation experiences that may be different from one-on-one care.


With a nanny, there’s no need to rush in the morning to get out the door for daycare. Nannies can manage school pickups, assist with homework and meals, ensuring a smooth transition for children when parents return home.

Daycare facilities are equipped with the necessary supplies, toys, and educational materials. Parents don’t need to worry about constantly replenishing items at home.

Costs involved

The primary drawback of hiring a nanny is the potential cost, especially for families requiring full-time care for one child. If, however, you have more than one child, the cost can be comparable to daycare. A nanny can be self-employed or you may take on the responsibilities of an employer, including fulfilling legal obligations such as payroll taxes, superannuation, and other employment-related requirements.

Childcare services are a potentially more affordable option than hiring a nanny, depending on how much childcare subsidy (CCS) a family is eligible for.

Potential for disagreements

Differences in parenting styles or disagreements over household responsibilities may arise between the family and the nanny. Clear communication and a well-defined contract can help mitigate these issues.

Differences in expectations between parents and daycare policies can lead to disagreements. For example, conflicts may arise regarding discipline methods, dietary preferences, or handling of specific situations. It’s crucial for both parties to maintain open lines of communication to address concerns promptly.

 Reliability concerns

Nannies may face personal or family issues that affect their reliability. Families should establish contingency plans for unexpected situations, ensuring consistent care for the child.

Children in childcare settings are in close contact with others, increasing the likelihood of exposure to illnesses. This can lead to more frequent illnesses, requiring parents to take time off work or make alternative care arrangements.

 Care environment

Nannies who provide care in your home can provide a stable environment that contributes to a child’s sense of security, which can be beneficial for a child’s overall wellbeing.

Licensed childcare facilities are subject to strict regulations and regular inspections to ensure compliance with safety and hygiene standards. This can provide parents with peace of mind regarding their child’s wellbeing.

Experience and qualifications

Nannies come from diverse backgrounds, and their qualifications can vary widely. Some may have formal education in childcare, while others may have gained experience through practical caregiving roles. While certifications in early childhood education or related fields are beneficial, they are not always required for nanny positions.

Both nannies and childcare educators may have specialised training or experience in areas such as first aid, CPR, or specific childcare techniques.

Childcare educators typically hold qualifications such as a Certificate 3 in Early Childhood Education and Care or a degree in early childhood education.


Consider your family’s unique dynamics, including the number of children, their ages, and any specific needs they may have.

Evaluate your budget and financial considerations. While hiring a nanny may be more expensive, it could be much more convenient and there will be less chance of illness (and therefore missing work for you).

Some families prefer the increased involvement and communication that comes with hiring a nanny, while others appreciate the structure and socialisation of daycare services.

In conclusion, the decision between a nanny, daycare, or other childcare options depends on various factors, including your child’s needs, your family’s preferences, and your budget. Each option has its own set of advantages and disadvantages, and careful consideration is necessary to make the best choice for your child’s development and your family’s unique circumstances.